Quick update, i finally bought and installed the ghost 3.5 connector. It installed easy, but racking the slide seems to stick and requires some extra effort. Once its pulled past that point, it slides the rest of the way back freely as usual. Is this something that will work itself out? I havent fired it yet.
Had the same thing happen with me I emailed Ghost about it and here's the response I got
"It is not normal. But we have found that if it occurs it is gun dependent and after the parts mate usually it goes away.
We make the reset/disconnector tab slightly longer on our connectors this is to insure 100% reliability under extreme conditions.
This could be causing the problem. You can first try doing a bend angle adjustment by closing the 90 degree angle. This will make the connector lay flatter on the trigger housing and may eliminate most of the drag. Also rub your finger over the reset/disconnector tab and check to see if there any burrs.
If there are burrs you may return it and we will send you a new.
It will not harm the pistol to shoot it, the connector eventually mates to the slide because the slide is twice as hard.
If there are no burrs try firing the pistol. The problem will resolve itself after 500 or 600 hundred cycles when the parts mate".
I ended up sending mine back and they sent me a new one and did adjustments to the new they sent me, Works great now. Also, very impressed with their customer service!